"Find fault with thyself rather than with others"
About this Quote
The intent is disciplining the ego so it can be made governable. If you train elites and retainers to locate failure inside themselves, you reduce the public appetite for scapegoats and the private urge to settle scores. That’s not humility for humility’s sake; it’s a technique for producing obedience without constant coercion. Self-critique becomes a pressure valve, redirecting anger inward before it hardens into political action.
The subtext is also a warning about perception. In Tokugawa Japan, reputations were currencies and accusations were weapons. Finding fault with others invites retaliation, exposes your own imperfections, and broadcasts that you can’t control your temper - a fatal flaw in a court culture where restraint signaled legitimacy. By urging self-blame, Ieyasu is effectively saying: master yourself, or someone else will master you.
In context, the shogunate’s long peace depended on converting a warrior class from battlefield ambition to administrative discipline. This aphorism is part of that conversion: a small sentence that helps turn swords into schedules, and pride into order.
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| Topic | Humility |
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Tokugawa, Ieyasu. (2026, January 17). Find fault with thyself rather than with others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/find-fault-with-thyself-rather-than-with-others-54106/
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Tokugawa, Ieyasu. "Find fault with thyself rather than with others." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/find-fault-with-thyself-rather-than-with-others-54106/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Find fault with thyself rather than with others." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/find-fault-with-thyself-rather-than-with-others-54106/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.












