"First, I'm trying to prove to myself that I'm a person. Then maybe I'll convince myself that I'm an actress"
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The second sentence sharpens the subtext: acting, for her, isn’t pure glamour or even pure craft; it’s contingent on basic self-recognition. “Then maybe I’ll convince myself that I’m an actress” reads like someone doubting she has earned the role she’s been cast in by the machine. Monroe was famously treated as a “natural,” a body with a camera-friendly face rather than a worker with technique. The line pushes back on that mythology by framing “actress” as an identity that requires conviction, training, and agency - not just being looked at.
Context matters: Monroe’s career was built on a persona that studios, photographers, and gossip columns could control, while her private self (Norma Jeane, the reader, the student, the anxious striver) was treated as an inconvenience. The quote works because it refuses the usual celebrity narrative of empowerment. It’s not “I know my worth.” It’s the rawer admission: worth has to be assembled, piece by piece, against a culture that profits when you remain a symbol instead of a person.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Monroe, Marilyn. (2026, January 18). First, I'm trying to prove to myself that I'm a person. Then maybe I'll convince myself that I'm an actress. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-im-trying-to-prove-to-myself-that-im-a-13708/
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Monroe, Marilyn. "First, I'm trying to prove to myself that I'm a person. Then maybe I'll convince myself that I'm an actress." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-im-trying-to-prove-to-myself-that-im-a-13708/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"First, I'm trying to prove to myself that I'm a person. Then maybe I'll convince myself that I'm an actress." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-im-trying-to-prove-to-myself-that-im-a-13708/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.







