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Daily Inspiration Quote by Epictetus

"First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do"

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Stoicism’s self-help veneer peels back fast when Epictetus talks like this: decide who you are, then accept the price tag. The line is deceptively clean, almost motivational-poster material, but its intent is stricter than modern “manifestation” culture. Epictetus isn’t asking you to fantasize about an upgraded identity; he’s forcing a moral inventory. “What you would be” means a character choice - just, disciplined, unflinching - not a brand or a job title. Identity comes first because, for a Stoic, outcomes are unreliable and status is external. Virtue is the only stable asset.

The subtext is accountability. If you say you want to be courageous, you don’t get to negotiate with discomfort when it arrives. If you want to be temperate, you can’t treat temptation as an exception that proves your uniqueness. The second clause - “then do what you have to do” - is where the romance dies and the philosophy begins. It assumes the world will resist you and that the work will be repetitive, unglamorous, and often invisible. Stoicism is often misread as emotional repression; this is closer to ethical consistency under pressure.

Context matters: Epictetus was born enslaved and later taught in Rome and Nicopolis, shaping a philosophy built for people with limited control over their circumstances. The sentence is a quiet rebuke to the powerless person’s most seductive escape hatch: waiting for conditions to improve before committing to a life. He offers a harsher freedom: you may not control events, but you can stop outsourcing your character to them.

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"First say to yourself what you would be; and then do what you have to do." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-say-to-yourself-what-you-would-be-and-then-27182/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.

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Epictetus (55 AC - 135 AC) was a Philosopher from Greece.

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