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Love Quote by Hugo von Hofmannsthal

"First, to be able to love, then to learn that body and spirit are one"

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Love comes first here, not as a sentimental garnish but as a prerequisite for knowledge. Hofmannsthal is smuggling in a quiet hierarchy: before you can think clearly about the self, you have to be capable of attachment, of risk, of being moved. Only then, he suggests, can you learn the harder lesson that Western culture keeps trying to unlearn - that body and spirit aren’t rival tenants sharing a cramped apartment, they’re the same address.

The line reads like a rebuttal to the era’s favorite splits. Fin-de-siecle Vienna and its broader German-language modernism were obsessed with fractures: mind versus flesh, ethics versus appetite, art versus life. You can hear the pressure of psychoanalysis in the background, too, with its insistence that “spirit” has fingerprints, that lofty ideals are tethered to nerves, desire, fatigue. Hofmannsthal’s intent isn’t to romanticize embodiment; it’s to make it unavoidable.

The syntax does the work. “First” and “then” stage a disciplined progression, almost like a spiritual exercise, but the destination isn’t transcendence. It’s integration. “To be able to love” is phrased as capacity, not feeling - an earned competence. And the second clause doesn’t promise comfort; “to learn” implies resistance, a lesson drilled in by experience: grief, intimacy, illness, sex, aging. The subtext is that abstraction is a kind of evasion. If you can’t love, you’ll keep pretending you’re a brain with a body problem. If you can, the false split collapses, and the modern self becomes legible again.

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Hofmannsthal, Hugo von. (2026, January 16). First, to be able to love, then to learn that body and spirit are one. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-to-be-able-to-love-then-to-learn-that-body-133816/

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Hofmannsthal, Hugo von. "First, to be able to love, then to learn that body and spirit are one." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-to-be-able-to-love-then-to-learn-that-body-133816/.

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"First, to be able to love, then to learn that body and spirit are one." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/first-to-be-able-to-love-then-to-learn-that-body-133816/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Hugo von Hofmannsthal (February 1, 1874 - July 15, 1929) was a Novelist from Austria.

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