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Daily Inspiration Quote by Daisy Fuentes

"Fits did not go over well in my house. There was a lot of discipline and obedience and you had to be very ladylike. Ladies didn't curse and I still don't curse in front of my parents"

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Domestic “discipline” is doing double duty here: it’s both a set of rules and a system of containment. Fuentes doesn’t frame her upbringing as cozy or quaint; she calls it a house where “fits” were unacceptable, where obedience was the default setting, and where femininity came with a dress code for behavior. “Very ladylike” isn’t a compliment so much as a warning label. It signals a gendered contract: be controlled, be palatable, don’t take up volatile space.

The line about cursing is the sneakily sharp part. It’s not about profanity; it’s about power. Swearing is one of the easiest forms of verbal rebellion, a quick way to puncture politeness and claim emotional territory. By noting she still won’t curse in front of her parents, Fuentes admits that the house rules have outlived the house itself. The discipline has been internalized, folded into adulthood as reflex and respect, possibly fear, definitely conditioning.

As a public figure who came up in media spaces that reward composure and punish “difficult” women, her story also reads like a primer on how girls are trained into professionalism long before they have a résumé. The subtext is cultural as much as personal: “ladylike” is a tool for social control that masquerades as good manners, and the lingering restraint suggests how hard it is to shake the original audience that raised you.

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Fuentes, Daisy. (2026, January 17). Fits did not go over well in my house. There was a lot of discipline and obedience and you had to be very ladylike. Ladies didn't curse and I still don't curse in front of my parents. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fits-did-not-go-over-well-in-my-house-there-was-a-68884/

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Fuentes, Daisy. "Fits did not go over well in my house. There was a lot of discipline and obedience and you had to be very ladylike. Ladies didn't curse and I still don't curse in front of my parents." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fits-did-not-go-over-well-in-my-house-there-was-a-68884/.

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"Fits did not go over well in my house. There was a lot of discipline and obedience and you had to be very ladylike. Ladies didn't curse and I still don't curse in front of my parents." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fits-did-not-go-over-well-in-my-house-there-was-a-68884/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Daisy Fuentes (born November 17, 1966) is a Actress from Cuba.

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