"Flattery is all right so long as you don't inhale"
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Flattery, in Stevenson’s hands, isn’t a moral sin so much as an occupational hazard with a punchline. “So long as you don’t inhale” borrows the language of physical dependency to frame praise as something you can sample without letting it become your bloodstream. The joke lands because it treats ego like a vice: socially acceptable in small doses, corrosive when it turns into self-image.
Stevenson was a midcentury liberal intellectual in a political culture that rewarded glad-handing and punished aloofness. As a two-time Democratic presidential nominee, he lived inside the contradiction: you need crowds to love you, but if you start believing the crowd’s love is proof of your infallibility, you’re finished. The line is a self-defense mechanism, a way of signaling sophistication about the game while still playing it. He’s telling donors, reporters, and rival politicians: I hear the compliments, I’m not offended, but I’m not owned by them either.
The subtext is sharper: flattery isn’t primarily about the person being praised; it’s about power. People flatter to extract access, soften resistance, and purchase goodwill. Stevenson’s metaphor warns against confusing manipulation for affirmation. Don’t inhale, because inhaling turns you into an instrument - someone who starts making decisions to keep the praise coming. In an era before “spin” became a household word, Stevenson captures its psychology in one clean, modern sentence.
Stevenson was a midcentury liberal intellectual in a political culture that rewarded glad-handing and punished aloofness. As a two-time Democratic presidential nominee, he lived inside the contradiction: you need crowds to love you, but if you start believing the crowd’s love is proof of your infallibility, you’re finished. The line is a self-defense mechanism, a way of signaling sophistication about the game while still playing it. He’s telling donors, reporters, and rival politicians: I hear the compliments, I’m not offended, but I’m not owned by them either.
The subtext is sharper: flattery isn’t primarily about the person being praised; it’s about power. People flatter to extract access, soften resistance, and purchase goodwill. Stevenson’s metaphor warns against confusing manipulation for affirmation. Don’t inhale, because inhaling turns you into an instrument - someone who starts making decisions to keep the praise coming. In an era before “spin” became a household word, Stevenson captures its psychology in one clean, modern sentence.
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| Topic | Witty One-Liners |
|---|---|
| Source | Adlai E. Stevenson — quotation attributed: "Flattery is all right so long as you don't inhale." (see Wikiquote entry). |
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