"Folks never understand the folks they hate"
About this Quote
Lowell writes as a 19th-century poet deeply entangled with the political argument of his time, especially around abolition and the moral self-mythology of the American public. In that context, the target isn’t merely personal animus; it’s the machinery of dehumanization that made slavery, nativism, and sectional contempt feel “reasonable.” Hatred needs caricature to function. Understanding - actual curiosity about motives, constraints, fears, humor, family, survival - dissolves the cartoon, and with it the emotional convenience of contempt.
The subtext is more unsettling than “be nicer.” It suggests that hatred depends on a chosen ignorance, a willful refusal of complexity. And it carries a warning for reformers, too: if you can’t understand the people you oppose, you’ll misread their power, their incentives, and the stories they tell themselves. Lowell’s sting is that hate isn’t just cruel; it’s incompetent.
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"Folks never understand the folks they hate." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/folks-never-understand-the-folks-they-hate-26768/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.












