"Follow the three R's: - Respect for self. - Respect for others. - Responsibility for all your actions"
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"Respect for others" sounds obvious until you notice how it refuses to specify tribe, nation, or creed. That's not soft sentimentality; it's strategic universality. As a leader whose life is defined by exile and the long aftermath of Tibet's annexation, the Dalai Lama can't afford a morality that only works inside the in-group. The line implies a politics without revenge: recognition as a discipline, not a mood.
Then comes the hard part: "Responsibility for all your actions". The phrase "all" is doing the heavy lifting. It's a refusal of moral outsourcing - to systems, to orders, to historical grievance. It reads like a spiritual principle, but it functions like civic instruction: if your behavior is always someone else's fault, you are permanently governable.
The subtext is leadership by restraint. This isn't a call to feel good; it's a framework for maintaining agency under pressure, for building a social ethic that can survive conflict without mirroring it. In three items, he sketches a ladder from inner integrity to public consequence, making compassion sound less like innocence and more like accountability.
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Lama, Dalai. (2026, January 15). Follow the three R's: - Respect for self. - Respect for others. - Responsibility for all your actions. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/follow-the-three-rs-respect-for-self-respect-172838/
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Lama, Dalai. "Follow the three R's: - Respect for self. - Respect for others. - Responsibility for all your actions." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/follow-the-three-rs-respect-for-self-respect-172838/.
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"Follow the three R's: - Respect for self. - Respect for others. - Responsibility for all your actions." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/follow-the-three-rs-respect-for-self-respect-172838/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.









