"For 24 hours a day, for 10 years, all I thought about was being in a band. That's all I did. I had no other social life. I don't want my life to be like that now. I've spent the past 10 years having a real life as well. But Spandau Ballet is such a difficult shadow to outrun"
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The pivot matters. Kemp isn’t romanticizing the grind. He’s drawing a line between the youthful fantasy of becoming a band and the adult reality of being a person. "A real life" lands like a quiet rebuke to the mythology that great art requires total self-erasure. It also carries a little survivor’s guilt: as if stepping away from obsession might be read as betrayal by fans, bandmates, or his younger self.
Then comes the sting: "such a difficult shadow to outrun". The image is sharp because it’s paradoxical. Shadows are weightless, but they cling. Spandau Ballet functions here as both achievement and brand, a shorthand the world uses to reduce him to a decade and a sound. The subtext is that nostalgia is not neutral; it’s an industry, a social script, a permanent name-tag. Kemp’s struggle isn’t to escape failure. It’s to outpace the success that keeps introducing him as who he used to be.
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Kemp, Gary. (2026, January 16). For 24 hours a day, for 10 years, all I thought about was being in a band. That's all I did. I had no other social life. I don't want my life to be like that now. I've spent the past 10 years having a real life as well. But Spandau Ballet is such a difficult shadow to outrun. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-24-hours-a-day-for-10-years-all-i-thought-125478/
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Kemp, Gary. "For 24 hours a day, for 10 years, all I thought about was being in a band. That's all I did. I had no other social life. I don't want my life to be like that now. I've spent the past 10 years having a real life as well. But Spandau Ballet is such a difficult shadow to outrun." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-24-hours-a-day-for-10-years-all-i-thought-125478/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For 24 hours a day, for 10 years, all I thought about was being in a band. That's all I did. I had no other social life. I don't want my life to be like that now. I've spent the past 10 years having a real life as well. But Spandau Ballet is such a difficult shadow to outrun." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-24-hours-a-day-for-10-years-all-i-thought-125478/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.