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"For a long time I was interested in being a social worker. In a lot of ways I feel that that's all my music is, trying to help people"

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There’s a quiet sleight of hand in Iris DeMent’s line: she reframes the artist not as a star, a brand, or even a storyteller, but as a public servant. The social worker comparison rejects the romantic myth of inspiration and replaces it with something humbler and harder: care as a craft. It’s also a subtle argument about what her songs are for. Not to impress you, not to win the room, but to sit with you.

The intent is plainspoken, almost disarming. DeMent isn’t claiming music can “heal the world” in a stadium-sized way. She’s talking about the small, domestic scale where her work actually lives: the car ride after a funeral, the kitchen table after a fight, the lonely hour when you need a voice that doesn’t flinch. Social work is often about witnessing without judgment, offering structure when life feels unstructured. DeMent’s best songs operate on that same frequency: plain language, moral clarity, tenderness without sentimentality.

The subtext is also a critique of how culture values labor. Social work is essential and chronically underpaid; folk and country-rooted songwriting, especially from women, gets treated similarly - as “simple,” “earnest,” “nice.” DeMent embraces that supposed softness and reveals its backbone. Help, in her framing, isn’t an aesthetic bonus. It’s the point.

Context matters: coming up in a tradition where songs are communal tools - for grief, faith, survival - she’s staking a claim that art’s highest calling is usefulness. Not productivity. Usefulness.

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Iris DeMent (born January 5, 1961) is a Musician from USA.

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