"For a long time, I was interested in being a social worker. In a lot of ways I feel that that's all my music is, trying to help people"
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The intent is plainspoken, almost disarming. DeMent isn’t claiming music can “heal the world” in a stadium-sized way. She’s talking about the small, domestic scale where her work actually lives: the car ride after a funeral, the kitchen table after a fight, the lonely hour when you need a voice that doesn’t flinch. Social work is often about witnessing without judgment, offering structure when life feels unstructured. DeMent’s best songs operate on that same frequency: plain language, moral clarity, tenderness without sentimentality.
The subtext is also a critique of how culture values labor. Social work is essential and chronically underpaid; folk and country-rooted songwriting, especially from women, gets treated similarly - as “simple,” “earnest,” “nice.” DeMent embraces that supposed softness and reveals its backbone. Help, in her framing, isn’t an aesthetic bonus. It’s the point.
Context matters: coming up in a tradition where songs are communal tools - for grief, faith, survival - she’s staking a claim that art’s highest calling is usefulness. Not productivity. Usefulness.
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DeMent, Iris. (2026, February 19). For a long time, I was interested in being a social worker. In a lot of ways I feel that that's all my music is, trying to help people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-long-time-i-was-interested-in-being-a-55507/
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DeMent, Iris. "For a long time, I was interested in being a social worker. In a lot of ways I feel that that's all my music is, trying to help people." FixQuotes. February 19, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-long-time-i-was-interested-in-being-a-55507/.
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"For a long time, I was interested in being a social worker. In a lot of ways I feel that that's all my music is, trying to help people." FixQuotes, 19 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-long-time-i-was-interested-in-being-a-55507/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.


