"For a married woman to flirt is a sin"
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The intent is double: it flatters social rules while quietly exposing how artificial they are. “For a married woman” is the tell. The phrase isn’t about flirting so much as about ownership and surveillance, the way marriage turned female attention into regulated property. Calling flirtation a “sin” magnifies the anxiety of a culture that needed women to embody respectability, even as it consumed them as spectacle. Held, who made her living in the economy of suggestion, knew that the thrill often comes from the boundary itself. You can’t sell transgression without first advertising the fence.
The subtext is sharp: men are permitted charisma; women are punished for it, especially once their role is recoded from desirable to domesticated. The line also works as self-protection. By pretending to scold flirtation, Held can keep flirting in public while sounding “moral” enough to pass. It’s a showbiz survival tactic: satisfy the gatekeepers, delight the crowd, and let hypocrisy pay the ticket price.
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| Topic | Husband & Wife |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Held, Anna. (2026, January 16). For a married woman to flirt is a sin. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-married-woman-to-flirt-is-a-sin-119292/
Chicago Style
Held, Anna. "For a married woman to flirt is a sin." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-married-woman-to-flirt-is-a-sin-119292/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For a married woman to flirt is a sin." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-married-woman-to-flirt-is-a-sin-119292/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







