"For a tear is quickly dried, especially when shed for the misfortunes of others"
About this Quote
The intent is double-edged. On one side, it’s counsel about emotional self-knowledge: don’t mistake your immediate reaction for lasting solidarity. On the other, it’s political and rhetorical realism. Cicero lived in a late Republic where pity could be weaponized in courts, assemblies, and funerals, where displays of feeling were part of persuasion. In that world, tears were evidence, currency, and camouflage. To note how quickly they dry is to hint at their unreliability.
Subtext: empathy has a time limit when it isn’t anchored to personal risk or responsibility. Feeling bad is easy; staying with the consequences is hard. Cicero’s cynicism lands because it names an uncomfortable truth about moral spectatorship: we can mourn the unlucky as a way of reassuring ourselves that we are not them, then quietly enjoy the relief. The sentence is tight, almost offhand, and that restraint is the point. It doesn’t plead for better angels; it indicts the social habit of mistaking sentiment for duty.
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| Topic | Kindness |
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Cicero. (2026, January 15). For a tear is quickly dried, especially when shed for the misfortunes of others. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-tear-is-quickly-dried-especially-when-shed-8998/
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"For a tear is quickly dried, especially when shed for the misfortunes of others." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-a-tear-is-quickly-dried-especially-when-shed-8998/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.








