"For I, hearing my Lord's estate amongst many more estates was to be sold, and that the wives of the owners should have an allowance therefrom, it gave me hopes I should receive a benefit thereby"
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The apparent modesty of the request is the subtext's sharpest blade. She doesn't demand what is owed; she anticipates a "benefit" as if it were a charitable spillover from men's financial affairs. That posture isn't naive. It's tactical. In a culture where a woman's access to wealth often came through marriage, patronage, or inheritance managed by men, framing a claim as hopeful gratitude could be the only socially legible way to speak about need without being punished for impropriety.
Context matters here: Cavendish lived through civil war, exile, and the political whiplash of the mid-17th century, when "estate" wasn't just land but a whole order of life. Her line captures the emotional economics of that instability. The syntax piles up clauses like anxious bookkeeping, mirroring how women's prospects were similarly contingent: one sale, one decision, one husband's status away from precarity. The result is both candid and quietly accusatory - a record of how power teaches the powerless to ask.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Cavendish, Margaret. (2026, January 16). For I, hearing my Lord's estate amongst many more estates was to be sold, and that the wives of the owners should have an allowance therefrom, it gave me hopes I should receive a benefit thereby. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-i-hearing-my-lords-estate-amongst-many-more-105034/
Chicago Style
Cavendish, Margaret. "For I, hearing my Lord's estate amongst many more estates was to be sold, and that the wives of the owners should have an allowance therefrom, it gave me hopes I should receive a benefit thereby." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-i-hearing-my-lords-estate-amongst-many-more-105034/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For I, hearing my Lord's estate amongst many more estates was to be sold, and that the wives of the owners should have an allowance therefrom, it gave me hopes I should receive a benefit thereby." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-i-hearing-my-lords-estate-amongst-many-more-105034/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.





