"For instance, he says, I let him play golf, and he says, he lets me be miserable in my job. Now - that doesn't quite sound right, does it? But nonetheless, I think for the first time in my life, I'm not going to be miserable in my life when I come and work at CNN"
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The subtext is sharper than the anecdote: this is a woman with real professional power still describing her career choices through the grammar of permission. “I let him play golf” signals the familiar cultural script of the managing spouse, but the punchline flips it - he “lets” her be miserable. That’s not just marital banter; it’s a miniature of how women’s ambition has often been framed as something to be accommodated, not assumed. Chung catches herself mid-performance, aware of the optics, but she doesn’t fully retract it. She keeps the contradiction onstage.
Context matters: Chung’s career played out in an era when high-profile newsrooms were both gatekept and mythologized, and when moving to a brand like CNN could be sold as reinvention. Her final pivot - “for the first time... I’m not going to be miserable” - is less triumphal than exhausted. It’s not a victory lap; it’s a public claim to basic dignity, delivered with the defensive humor of someone who’s had to justify wanting it.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Chung, Connie. (2026, February 18). For instance, he says, I let him play golf, and he says, he lets me be miserable in my job. Now - that doesn't quite sound right, does it? But nonetheless, I think for the first time in my life, I'm not going to be miserable in my life when I come and work at CNN. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-instance-he-says-i-let-him-play-golf-and-he-67063/
Chicago Style
Chung, Connie. "For instance, he says, I let him play golf, and he says, he lets me be miserable in my job. Now - that doesn't quite sound right, does it? But nonetheless, I think for the first time in my life, I'm not going to be miserable in my life when I come and work at CNN." FixQuotes. February 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-instance-he-says-i-let-him-play-golf-and-he-67063/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For instance, he says, I let him play golf, and he says, he lets me be miserable in my job. Now - that doesn't quite sound right, does it? But nonetheless, I think for the first time in my life, I'm not going to be miserable in my life when I come and work at CNN." FixQuotes, 18 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-instance-he-says-i-let-him-play-golf-and-he-67063/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










