"For many of us, sport has provided the continuity in our lives, the alternative family to the one we left behind. It gives us something to talk about, to preen about, to care about"
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Thorn is doing something sly here: he’s praising sport while quietly refusing to romanticize it. Calling sport “continuity” isn’t just nostalgia for box scores; it’s an admission that modern life is built on rupture. People move, families fracture, communities thin out. In that churn, sport functions like a calendar and a religion at once: a season you can count on, a set of rituals that repeat even when everything else changes. “Alternative family” lands with a deliberate pinch. Families are supposed to be given; sport is chosen. That choice is the point, and the subtext is a little lonely: we need someplace to put our loyalty after the old structures stop holding.
The line about “something to talk about” is deceptively modest. Sport is conversational infrastructure, a socially acceptable intimacy between strangers. It gives you a language for feeling without having to confess you’re feeling. Then Thorn slips in “to preen about,” the most telling verb in the quote. He’s acknowledging the ego economy: fans borrow glamour, swagger, even grievance from teams and athletes. We don’t just watch; we accessorize ourselves with outcomes.
As a historian, Thorn is also hinting at why sport persists as mass culture. It’s not only entertainment; it’s a portable identity kit. You can carry it across cities, across decades, across versions of yourself. “To care about” closes the loop: sport offers low-stakes stakes, a safe arena to practice devotion, heartbreak, and belonging when the real thing feels riskier or out of reach.
The line about “something to talk about” is deceptively modest. Sport is conversational infrastructure, a socially acceptable intimacy between strangers. It gives you a language for feeling without having to confess you’re feeling. Then Thorn slips in “to preen about,” the most telling verb in the quote. He’s acknowledging the ego economy: fans borrow glamour, swagger, even grievance from teams and athletes. We don’t just watch; we accessorize ourselves with outcomes.
As a historian, Thorn is also hinting at why sport persists as mass culture. It’s not only entertainment; it’s a portable identity kit. You can carry it across cities, across decades, across versions of yourself. “To care about” closes the loop: sport offers low-stakes stakes, a safe arena to practice devotion, heartbreak, and belonging when the real thing feels riskier or out of reach.
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| Topic | Sports |
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