"For me, playing is about playing with other people"
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The repetition is the point. “Playing is about playing” refuses lofty mission statements about expression or transcendence. It drags music back to the verb: an activity, a practice, a game with rules made in real time. Then the phrase pivots: “with other people.” That’s where the stakes appear. In Bailey’s context, “other people” aren’t accompanists or an audience to be managed; they’re co-authors. Improvisation becomes less a display of personal vocabulary than a negotiation: offer, response, interruption, repair. The real artistry is relational.
Subtext: virtuosity is overrated if it can’t communicate under pressure. Bailey is also taking a swipe at recorded-music perfectionism and the cult of control. Studio polish can freeze music into a monologue; Bailey argues for music as conversation - messy, contingent, sometimes awkward, always alive. It’s an ethics as much as an aesthetic: to play with others is to accept vulnerability, share agency, and let the work be shaped by someone else’s mind in the moment.
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Bailey, Derek. (2026, January 17). For me, playing is about playing with other people. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-playing-is-about-playing-with-other-people-57889/
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Bailey, Derek. "For me, playing is about playing with other people." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-playing-is-about-playing-with-other-people-57889/.
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"For me, playing is about playing with other people." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-playing-is-about-playing-with-other-people-57889/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




