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Creativity Quote by Reba McEntire

"For me, singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation. It gets the hurt out in the open into the light, out of the darkness"

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McEntire’s line is country music’s quiet thesis statement: pain doesn’t disappear when you ignore it; it metastasizes in the dark. Her phrasing is deliberately plainspoken, almost domestic, which is part of the craft. “For me” disarms the listener first, framing what follows as lived experience rather than a sermon. Then she pivots to something bolder: sadness as a tool, not a trap.

The intent is practical, not poetic. Singing “sad songs” becomes a kind of self-administered therapy session, with melody as the safe container. The subtext is that hurt demands witnesses. When she says it “gets the hurt out in the open,” she’s naming what country has long specialized in: taking private shame (grief, betrayal, loneliness) and making it singable, shareable, survivable. It’s not about wallowing; it’s about control. If you can put a feeling into lyrics and rhythm, you’ve already begun to shape it instead of being shaped by it.

The light/darkness contrast is simple imagery, but it works because it mirrors the genre’s moral geography: kitchens at midnight, headlights on back roads, the moment you finally tell the truth. In McEntire’s career context, the quote also reads like an artist’s defense of her lane. The sad song isn’t a gimmick for chart position; it’s an instrument of disclosure. She’s arguing that emotional candor can be an intervention: bring the hurt into daylight, and it loses some of its power to haunt you.

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Later attribution: The Mourner's Book of Faith (Alan Wolfelt, 2013) modern compilationISBN: 9781617221651 · ID: rl6gEQAAQBAJ
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... For me , singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation . It gets the hurt out in the open , into the light , out of the darkness . ~ Reba McEntire Maybe your loved one's death is new , and you are tempted to stay busy and ...
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McEntire, Reba. (2026, February 21). For me, singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation. It gets the hurt out in the open into the light, out of the darkness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-singing-sad-songs-often-has-a-way-of-127448/

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McEntire, Reba. "For me, singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation. It gets the hurt out in the open into the light, out of the darkness." FixQuotes. February 21, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-singing-sad-songs-often-has-a-way-of-127448/.

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"For me, singing sad songs often has a way of healing a situation. It gets the hurt out in the open into the light, out of the darkness." FixQuotes, 21 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-singing-sad-songs-often-has-a-way-of-127448/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.

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Reba McEntire

Reba McEntire (born March 28, 1955) is a Musician from USA.

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