"For me, the best times are always going to be the most intense, the ones with the highest highs and the lowest lows"
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The line works because it admits a contradiction without apologizing for it. Calling the lowest lows part of the “best times” reframes suffering as proof of being fully alive, but it also hints at the trap door underneath that philosophy: if intensity is the metric, peace can start to look like emptiness. Apple isn’t describing a mood; she’s describing a dependence. The phrasing “for me” matters, too. It’s a preemptive defense against the obvious critique (that this is unhealthy), while still insisting it’s true in her body, her chemistry, her history.
Contextually, Apple has long been read through a cultural lens that alternates between venerating women’s pain as art and punishing women for showing it. This quote threads that needle. It invites you to admire the bravery of full-throttle feeling, while quietly acknowledging the cost: when you chase the peak, you inherit the crash. That’s not just a personal admission; it’s a thesis about creativity in a culture that rewards extremes and calls it authenticity.
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| Topic | Life |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Apple, Fiona. (2026, January 16). For me, the best times are always going to be the most intense, the ones with the highest highs and the lowest lows. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-best-times-are-always-going-to-be-the-84072/
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Apple, Fiona. "For me, the best times are always going to be the most intense, the ones with the highest highs and the lowest lows." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-best-times-are-always-going-to-be-the-84072/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For me, the best times are always going to be the most intense, the ones with the highest highs and the lowest lows." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-best-times-are-always-going-to-be-the-84072/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.





