"For me the ideal date would be to drink wine in the backyard under the stars, listen to music and just talk. Then we'd eat steak and, later, dessert. If all went as planned, we'd save some of the dessert and play with it while making out"
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Then the script tilts: steak, dessert, “save some,” “play with it.” The escalation is deliberate. Food becomes foreplay, but it’s also a way of making sex sound playful rather than predatory or performative. “If all went as planned” is doing a lot of work: it frames consent and chemistry as mutually authored, not taken. The dessert isn’t just kink; it’s a permission structure. By keeping the erotic within a familiar romantic sequence, the quote makes experimentation feel safe, even wholesome - a nudge that says: intimacy can be mischievous without being threatening.
Context matters because McDougal’s public life has been filtered through tabloid narratives that flatten women into types. Here, she writes herself as a protagonist with preferences, pacing, and control over tone. It’s a small act of self-authorship: she’s not confessing scandal; she’s describing a scenario where pleasure is curated, mutual, and, crucially, hers to imagine.
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| Topic | Romantic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
McDougal, Karen. (n.d.). For me the ideal date would be to drink wine in the backyard under the stars, listen to music and just talk. Then we'd eat steak and, later, dessert. If all went as planned, we'd save some of the dessert and play with it while making out. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-ideal-date-would-be-to-drink-wine-in-126614/
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McDougal, Karen. "For me the ideal date would be to drink wine in the backyard under the stars, listen to music and just talk. Then we'd eat steak and, later, dessert. If all went as planned, we'd save some of the dessert and play with it while making out." FixQuotes. Accessed February 3, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-ideal-date-would-be-to-drink-wine-in-126614/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For me the ideal date would be to drink wine in the backyard under the stars, listen to music and just talk. Then we'd eat steak and, later, dessert. If all went as planned, we'd save some of the dessert and play with it while making out." FixQuotes, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-me-the-ideal-date-would-be-to-drink-wine-in-126614/. Accessed 3 Feb. 2026.








