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Daily Inspiration Quote by George Ade

"For parlor use, the vague generality is a life saver"

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Nothing keeps polite conversation afloat like saying almost nothing at all. George Ade’s line snaps shut on a social trick: in the parlor, specificity is a liability. “Vague generality” isn’t a failure of thought; it’s a strategy, a kind of verbal upholstery that cushions sharp edges and hides stains. Ade, a playwright with a reporter’s ear for American manners, is flagging how domestic civility runs on soft-focus language: opinions sanded down, judgments reduced to weather talk, moral commitments translated into tasteful murmurs.

The phrase “for parlor use” matters. The parlor isn’t just a room; it’s a performance space where status is maintained and conflict is managed through tone. Ade’s comedy comes from treating this as a utilitarian tool, like a fire extinguisher: when real disagreement sparks, the “vague generality” saves the evening. The joke carries a mild accusation. If generalities are life savers, then honest particulars are socially lethal. The parlor demands survival, not truth.

There’s also a sly class critique. Parlors belong to people with something to lose: reputation, invitation lists, the illusion of harmony. Ade implies that the etiquette of “nice” society is built to protect comfort and hierarchy by draining language of consequence. In a culture that prizes being agreeable, vagueness becomes moral camouflage, letting everyone exit the conversation intact while nothing actually gets said. That’s Ade’s bite: the smoothest talk is often the emptiest, and emptiness is sometimes the point.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Ade, George. (2026, January 18). For parlor use, the vague generality is a life saver. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-parlor-use-the-vague-generality-is-a-life-12559/

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Ade, George. "For parlor use, the vague generality is a life saver." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-parlor-use-the-vague-generality-is-a-life-12559/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For parlor use, the vague generality is a life saver." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-parlor-use-the-vague-generality-is-a-life-12559/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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George Ade (February 9, 1866 - May 16, 1944) was a Playwright from USA.

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