"For rarely are sons similar to their fathers: most are worse, and a few are better than their fathers"
About this Quote
The phrasing matters. “Rarely” and “most” make it sound like observation rather than sermon, which is exactly how it sneaks past the listener’s defenses. It’s not a moral lecture; it’s a statistic from a world where war, honor, and reputation determine whether you’re remembered or erased. In the Iliad and Odyssey’s orbit, fathers are benchmarks and burdens: sons inherit not just property but unfinished feuds, expectations, and the psychic weight of comparison. The subtext is brutal: ancestry doesn’t transmit virtue, skill, or judgment. It transmits pressure.
There’s also a quiet mercy inside the cynicism. The line admits the possibility of being “better,” which in Homeric terms is not self-help uplift but a hard-won miracle. Heroism isn’t guaranteed by pedigree; it’s earned in public, under consequence. Homer preserves the romance of greatness while puncturing the fantasy that greatness is genetic.
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| Topic | Father |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Homer. (2026, January 14). For rarely are sons similar to their fathers: most are worse, and a few are better than their fathers. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-rarely-are-sons-similar-to-their-fathers-most-112043/
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Homer. "For rarely are sons similar to their fathers: most are worse, and a few are better than their fathers." FixQuotes. January 14, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-rarely-are-sons-similar-to-their-fathers-most-112043/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For rarely are sons similar to their fathers: most are worse, and a few are better than their fathers." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-rarely-are-sons-similar-to-their-fathers-most-112043/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.










