"For the last few years, it's been so chic for everybody to be miserable. Like if you're in with the cool crowd, you can't be happy"
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The line “in with the cool crowd” locates the real target: gatekeeping. Happiness isn’t rejected because it’s fake; it’s rejected because it’s read as naive, square, complicit. If you’re happy, you must not “get it.” Kravitz flips that logic. He implies that relentless bleakness can be its own kind of conformity, a herd instinct masquerading as individuality.
The context is a late-20th/early-21st-century pop culture cycle where irony became armor and melancholy became branding: indie-rock stoicism, grunge’s hangover, then social media’s permanent audition for depth. Even vulnerability, once a rupture, became a pose that can be monetized. Kravitz, whose persona has long been sensual, exuberant, and retro-optimistic, is defending joy as a rebellious act. The subtext is almost punk: if the room demands darkness to prove you belong, choosing happiness is the sharper refusal.
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| Topic | Happiness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kravitz, Lenny. (2026, January 17). For the last few years, it's been so chic for everybody to be miserable. Like if you're in with the cool crowd, you can't be happy. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-the-last-few-years-its-been-so-chic-for-62439/
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Kravitz, Lenny. "For the last few years, it's been so chic for everybody to be miserable. Like if you're in with the cool crowd, you can't be happy." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-the-last-few-years-its-been-so-chic-for-62439/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For the last few years, it's been so chic for everybody to be miserable. Like if you're in with the cool crowd, you can't be happy." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-the-last-few-years-its-been-so-chic-for-62439/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.




