"For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; To cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands"
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Rossetti makes sisterhood sound less like a sentimental bond and more like infrastructure: the steady, load-bearing thing you only notice when life starts to shake. The line turns on contrast - "calm or stormy weather" - then refuses to stay in the airy realm of feeling. Instead, it drills down into verbs of motion and rescue: cheer, fetch, lift, strengthen. Friendship here is practical labor, almost physical in its intimacy, and the repetition gives it the cadence of a vow. You can hear the rhythm of someone counting on another person, not merely admiring them.
The subtext is also quietly radical. In a 19th-century world that treated women as ornamental and domestic, Rossetti frames a female relationship as the most reliable form of allegiance. Not husband, not suitor, not even the abstract "friend" of moral essays - a sister. The sister is imagined as both compass and crutch: she "fetch[es]" you when you stray (a gentle authority), and "lift[s]" you when you fall (a refusal to let failure become a permanent identity). Even "whilst one stands" matters; support isn't only crisis response, it's reinforcement against the slow erosion of everyday pressure.
Context sharpens the intent. Rossetti, steeped in devotional language and Victorian restraint, often explores duty, desire, and moral perseverance. Here she smuggles emotional dependence into an acceptable form: familial affection. It's a socially sanctioned way to argue for deep, sustaining intimacy between women - and to insist, without melodrama, that endurance is rarely a solo act.
The subtext is also quietly radical. In a 19th-century world that treated women as ornamental and domestic, Rossetti frames a female relationship as the most reliable form of allegiance. Not husband, not suitor, not even the abstract "friend" of moral essays - a sister. The sister is imagined as both compass and crutch: she "fetch[es]" you when you stray (a gentle authority), and "lift[s]" you when you fall (a refusal to let failure become a permanent identity). Even "whilst one stands" matters; support isn't only crisis response, it's reinforcement against the slow erosion of everyday pressure.
Context sharpens the intent. Rossetti, steeped in devotional language and Victorian restraint, often explores duty, desire, and moral perseverance. Here she smuggles emotional dependence into an acceptable form: familial affection. It's a socially sanctioned way to argue for deep, sustaining intimacy between women - and to insist, without melodrama, that endurance is rarely a solo act.
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| Topic | Sister |
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| Source | Verified source: The Oxford Dictionary of Quotations (Elizabeth M. Knowles, 1999)ISBN: 9780198601739 · ID: o6rFno1ffQoC
Evidence: ... For there is no friend like a sister In calm or stormy weather ; To cheer one on the tedious way , To fetch one if one goes astray , To lift one if one totters down , To strengthen while one stands . ' Goblin Market ' ( 1862 ) 5 In the ... Other candidates (1) Christina Rossetti (Christina Rossetti) compilation76.0% hould remember and be sad remember l 1314 for there is no friend like a sisterin calm or stormy weatherto cheer one o... |
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