"For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; to cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands"
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The subtext is also quietly radical. In a 19th-century world that treated women as ornamental and domestic, Rossetti frames a female relationship as the most reliable form of allegiance. Not husband, not suitor, not even the abstract "friend" of moral essays - a sister. The sister is imagined as both compass and crutch: she "fetch[es]" you when you stray (a gentle authority), and "lift[s]" you when you fall (a refusal to let failure become a permanent identity). Even "whilst one stands" matters; support isn't only crisis response, it's reinforcement against the slow erosion of everyday pressure.
Context sharpens the intent. Rossetti, steeped in devotional language and Victorian restraint, often explores duty, desire, and moral perseverance. Here she smuggles emotional dependence into an acceptable form: familial affection. It's a socially sanctioned way to argue for deep, sustaining intimacy between women - and to insist, without melodrama, that endurance is rarely a solo act.
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| Topic | Sister |
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| Source | Verified source: The Oxford Dictionary of Quotations (Elizabeth M. Knowles, 1999)ISBN: 9780198601739 · ID: o6rFno1ffQoC
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Rossetti, Christina. (2026, February 16). For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; to cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-there-is-no-friend-like-a-sister-in-calm-or-8403/
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Rossetti, Christina. "For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; to cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands." FixQuotes. February 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-there-is-no-friend-like-a-sister-in-calm-or-8403/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"For there is no friend like a sister in calm or stormy weather; to cheer one on the tedious way, to fetch one if one goes astray, to lift one if one totters down, to strengthen whilst one stands." FixQuotes, 16 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/for-there-is-no-friend-like-a-sister-in-calm-or-8403/. Accessed 26 Feb. 2026.












