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Life & Wisdom Quote by Geoffrey Chaucer

"Forbid us something, and that thing we desire"

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Nothing spikes appetite like a locked door. Chaucer’s line is a neat medieval distillation of a very modern problem: prohibition doesn’t extinguish desire, it spotlights it. The verb “forbid” does more than describe a rule; it conjures authority, social surveillance, and the thrill of transgression. “That thing we desire” lands with a shrugging inevitability, as if human wanting is less a choice than a reflex triggered by constraint.

The intent is partly comic, partly diagnostic. Chaucer writes in a culture thick with moral instruction - church doctrine, courtly etiquette, household hierarchies - and his poetry is crowded with people who talk virtue while bargaining with temptation. The subtext is that desire is not merely innate; it is socially manufactured. Ban something and you give it narrative. You make it special, scarce, charged with meaning. The forbidden object becomes a test of autonomy: wanting it is a way of wanting to be the kind of person who can’t be managed.

That’s why the line works: it’s compact psychology masquerading as commonsense. It’s also quietly cynical about power. Rules aren’t neutral; they create the very cravings they claim to regulate, then punish people for having them. Chaucer, the poet of pilgrims and pretexts, knows that “sin” often follows the spotlight. Tell a crowd what not to do, and you’ve already written the menu.

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TopicWisdom
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Verified source: The Canterbury Tales (Geoffrey Chaucer, 14)
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Forbid us a thing, and we desire it; (The Wife of Bath's Tale). The commonly circulated modern form, “Forbid us something, and that thing we desire,” appears to be a paraphrase. A primary-text source attributes the line to Chaucer's The Wife of Bath's Tale within The Canterbury Tales, where the wording is given as “Forbid us a thing, and we desire it;”. Chaucer wrote The Canterbury Tales in the late 14th century, but the exact first publication year cannot be fixed precisely because it circulated in manuscript before print. So the source is primary and Chaucerian, but the exact modern wording is not the original text.
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Lisa Thöne. 1. Introduction The British poet Geoffrey Chaucer, who lived during the Middle English period, once propo...
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"Forbid us something, and that thing we desire." FixQuotes, 8 Mar. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forbid-us-something-and-that-thing-we-desire-158300/. Accessed 28 Mar. 2026.

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Geoffrey Chaucer (1343 AC - October 25, 1400) was a Poet from England.

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