"Forget the damned motor car and build the cities for lovers and friends"
About this Quote
The brilliance is the pivot from hardware to relationships. “Cities for lovers and friends” sounds almost soft until you hear the provocation underneath: if a city makes it hard to meet, linger, flirt, argue, reconcile, or simply be seen, it has failed regardless of GDP or traffic flow. Mumford’s subtext is that the car doesn’t just create congestion; it creates isolation. It stretches distances, turns streets into corridors of risk, and converts public space into leftover space. The sidewalk becomes an afterthought, the square a parking problem.
Context matters: Mumford wrote as the 20th century remade itself around automobiles, highways, and suburban expansion, selling “freedom” while standardizing landscapes and hollowing out urban commons. His sociologist’s eye is on the social costs that rarely make it into engineering spreadsheets: the loss of spontaneous encounters, the erosion of neighborhood life, the way convenience can anesthetize community.
It works because it refuses technocratic neutrality. Mumford makes a city’s purpose embarrassingly simple: not to move cars efficiently, but to make human connection inevitable.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Mumford, Lewis. (2026, January 18). Forget the damned motor car and build the cities for lovers and friends. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forget-the-damned-motor-car-and-build-the-cities-9114/
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Mumford, Lewis. "Forget the damned motor car and build the cities for lovers and friends." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forget-the-damned-motor-car-and-build-the-cities-9114/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Forget the damned motor car and build the cities for lovers and friends." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forget-the-damned-motor-car-and-build-the-cities-9114/. Accessed 22 Feb. 2026.








