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Daily Inspiration Quote by Phillips Brooks

"Forgive, forget. Bear with the faults of others as you would have them bear with yours"

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Brooks writes like someone trying to short-circuit a very human fantasy: that your pain should be remembered in high definition while your mistakes get the soft-focus edit. "Forgive, forget" lands as a clipped imperative, almost impatient, as if he knows how quickly grievance can turn into a hobby. The point isn’t that wrongs don’t matter; it’s that nursing them quietly reshapes the soul into a tribunal, always in session, always prosecuting.

The second sentence is where the quote shows its teeth. "Bear with the faults of others as you would have them bear with yours" isn’t pious sweetness; it’s moral symmetry. Brooks smuggles in an uncomfortable audit: you are not only victim or judge, you are also an offender who depends on other people’s mercy to stay socially employable. The subtext is relational realism: communities don’t survive on constant accountability theater. They survive on a baseline willingness to absorb each other’s mess without making every slip a referendum on someone’s character.

Context matters. As a 19th-century American Episcopal clergyman, Brooks preached in a culture of sharp class boundaries and public respectability, where reputations were both fragile and policed. His counsel isn’t naive about conflict; it’s strategic about cohesion. He’s offering forgiveness as a form of social infrastructure, a way to keep families, congregations, and cities from calcifying into factions. The line works because it refuses the comforting story that you’re different from the people who disappoint you. It insists you’re in the same economy of error, living on credit you didn’t earn.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Brooks, Phillips. (2026, January 16). Forgive, forget. Bear with the faults of others as you would have them bear with yours. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forgive-forget-bear-with-the-faults-of-others-as-84689/

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Brooks, Phillips. "Forgive, forget. Bear with the faults of others as you would have them bear with yours." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forgive-forget-bear-with-the-faults-of-others-as-84689/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Forgive, forget. Bear with the faults of others as you would have them bear with yours." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forgive-forget-bear-with-the-faults-of-others-as-84689/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Phillips Brooks

Phillips Brooks (December 13, 1835 - January 23, 1893) was a Clergyman from USA.

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