"Fortunate people often have very favorable beginnings and very tragic endings. What matters isn't being applauded when you arrive - for that is common - but being missed when you leave"
About this Quote
The line works because it’s less moralistic than diagnostic. Gracian isn’t praising suffering or romanticizing obscurity; he’s pointing out how social credit actually accrues. Applause is “common” because crowds clap for novelty, status, momentum. Being “missed,” by contrast, is rare because it can’t be faked for long. To be missed is to have created real dependence: trust, relief, meaning, an absence people feel in their routines. That’s a tougher standard than popularity, and it shifts the timeline of judgment from the performative moment to the afterimage.
Context matters: Gracian, a Jesuit steeped in Baroque disillusionment, wrote for readers navigating treacherous institutions where reputation could be currency or trap. The quote is a survival tip disguised as a maxim: don’t optimize for arrival. Optimize for residue. In the long run, the only applause that counts is the kind that echoes after you’re gone.
Quote Details
| Topic | Legacy & Remembrance |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Gracian, Baltasar. (2026, January 15). Fortunate people often have very favorable beginnings and very tragic endings. What matters isn't being applauded when you arrive - for that is common - but being missed when you leave. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fortunate-people-often-have-very-favorable-140289/
Chicago Style
Gracian, Baltasar. "Fortunate people often have very favorable beginnings and very tragic endings. What matters isn't being applauded when you arrive - for that is common - but being missed when you leave." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fortunate-people-often-have-very-favorable-140289/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Fortunate people often have very favorable beginnings and very tragic endings. What matters isn't being applauded when you arrive - for that is common - but being missed when you leave." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/fortunate-people-often-have-very-favorable-140289/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







