"Forty pictures I was in, and all I remember is 'What kind of bra will you be wearing today, honey?' That was always the area of big decision - from the neck to the navel"
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The pet-name “honey” is doing dark work. It’s intimacy used as management, a verbal pat on the head that disguises who holds the power. Reed doesn’t need to name sexism; she lets the ritual do it. The “big decision” is pointedly small - not about character, motivation, or even costume design in an artistic sense, but lingerie as workplace policy. Her phrasing mimics studio logic: the “area of big decision” is literally a zone, “from the neck to the navel,” a blunt coordinate system that treats an actress like a product shot.
Context matters: Reed came up in the classical Hollywood system, where studios controlled image, contracts, publicity, and often private lives. Female stardom was manufactured with a micrometer, and modesty codes still coexisted with an obsessive focus on cleavage and silhouette. Her quote captures that contradiction: the era pretended at propriety while policing and selling women’s bodies anyway. The intent isn’t just complaint; it’s reclamation. By narrating the dehumanizing question in her own voice, Reed flips it into evidence.
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Reed, Donna. (2026, January 15). Forty pictures I was in, and all I remember is 'What kind of bra will you be wearing today, honey?' That was always the area of big decision - from the neck to the navel. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forty-pictures-i-was-in-and-all-i-remember-is-162068/
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Reed, Donna. "Forty pictures I was in, and all I remember is 'What kind of bra will you be wearing today, honey?' That was always the area of big decision - from the neck to the navel." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forty-pictures-i-was-in-and-all-i-remember-is-162068/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Forty pictures I was in, and all I remember is 'What kind of bra will you be wearing today, honey?' That was always the area of big decision - from the neck to the navel." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/forty-pictures-i-was-in-and-all-i-remember-is-162068/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.




