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Creativity Quote by Jon Crosby

"'Free' is more of that 'familiarity breeds contempt' kind of thing. It's about saying 'Wait, I'm longing for something more than I have and I don't know what it is that I want, but I know I want it.' It has nothing to do with what I'm going through, personally"

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Crosby treats "Free" like a Trojan horse: a word that sounds like liberation but actually carries the sour aftertaste of entitlement and restlessness. The sly pivot to "familiarity breeds contempt" is the tell. Freedom, in this framing, isn’t a hard-won prize; it’s the air you’ve been breathing so long you start resenting it. That’s a very late-90s/early-2000s alternative-rock posture: not protest music, not diary confession, but a mood of affluent dissatisfaction where the enemy is boredom, not oppression.

The intent is to relocate the song from biography to atmosphere. When he says it has "nothing to do with what I'm going through, personally", he’s pushing back against the standard fan move of turning every lyric into a therapist’s transcript. He wants "Free" heard as a shared itch, not a personal wound: the sensation of being safe enough to ask for more, and honest enough to admit you can’t name the "more."

The subtext is quietly accusatory. "Wait" reads like someone interrupting their own autopilot life, suddenly aware that desire has outpaced meaning. That’s not empowerment; it’s a kind of spiritual consumerism, the craving for an upgrade without a product. Crosby’s language captures the paradox that makes the song idea work: freedom can be exhausting when it stops feeling like a door opening and starts feeling like an empty room.

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Crosby, Jon. (2026, January 15). 'Free' is more of that 'familiarity breeds contempt' kind of thing. It's about saying 'Wait, I'm longing for something more than I have and I don't know what it is that I want, but I know I want it.' It has nothing to do with what I'm going through, personally. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/free-is-more-of-that-familiarity-breeds-contempt-78065/

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Crosby, Jon. "'Free' is more of that 'familiarity breeds contempt' kind of thing. It's about saying 'Wait, I'm longing for something more than I have and I don't know what it is that I want, but I know I want it.' It has nothing to do with what I'm going through, personally." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/free-is-more-of-that-familiarity-breeds-contempt-78065/.

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"'Free' is more of that 'familiarity breeds contempt' kind of thing. It's about saying 'Wait, I'm longing for something more than I have and I don't know what it is that I want, but I know I want it.' It has nothing to do with what I'm going through, personally." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/free-is-more-of-that-familiarity-breeds-contempt-78065/. Accessed 8 Feb. 2026.

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Jon Crosby (born July 25, 1976) is a Musician from USA.

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