"Friends and good manners will carry you where money won't go"
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The subtext is sharper than it first appears. Walker is writing out of a century when Black artists and intellectuals routinely encountered institutions that wouldn’t take their money even if they had it. In that landscape, relationships and comportment weren’t just niceties; they were tools of navigation and survival, ways to move through hostile systems while holding onto dignity. “Carry you” implies fatigue and burden, as if the world is something you have to be transported through, not simply entered.
There’s also an implicit critique of transactional living. Money can purchase access, but it can’t reliably purchase belonging, discretion, mentorship, or forgiveness. Manners and friendship operate differently: they create a reputation that precedes you, a network that vouches for you when you’re absent. Walker’s genius is her economy. She makes the argument without sermonizing, turning a proverb into an indictment: if cash is your only language, you’ll be stranded the moment the conversation turns human.
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Walker, Margaret. (2026, January 16). Friends and good manners will carry you where money won't go. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-and-good-manners-will-carry-you-where-120133/
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Walker, Margaret. "Friends and good manners will carry you where money won't go." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-and-good-manners-will-carry-you-where-120133/.
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"Friends and good manners will carry you where money won't go." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-and-good-manners-will-carry-you-where-120133/. Accessed 10 Feb. 2026.








