"Friends are very important to me, and I have always had many of them. There are probably many reasons why this is so, but two seem to me more valid than any of the others I am a naturally friendly person, and I hate to be alone"
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The subtext is especially pointed coming from a conductor, a role built on controlled authority and public scrutiny. Conductors are both surrounded and isolated: at the center of an orchestra, yet emotionally separated by hierarchy, travel, and the expectation of command. Solti hints that friendship isn’t just pleasure; it’s ballast against the peculiar loneliness of being perpetually “in charge.” The line reads like an artist admitting that the crowd doesn’t cure solitude unless it becomes relationship.
There’s also an implicit self-portrait of professionalism. “Many friends” in musical life can mean networks, alliances, the social labor that makes careers possible. Solti refuses to romanticize that, framing it as instinct rather than strategy. The intent feels twofold: to normalize his need for connection, and to preempt the myth of the solitary genius. For a 20th-century European musician shaped by displacement and relentless touring, the hatred of being alone isn’t melodrama; it’s a workable ethic - build community or be swallowed by the gaps between performances.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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Solti, Georg. (2026, January 16). Friends are very important to me, and I have always had many of them. There are probably many reasons why this is so, but two seem to me more valid than any of the others I am a naturally friendly person, and I hate to be alone. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-are-very-important-to-me-and-i-have-121539/
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Solti, Georg. "Friends are very important to me, and I have always had many of them. There are probably many reasons why this is so, but two seem to me more valid than any of the others I am a naturally friendly person, and I hate to be alone." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-are-very-important-to-me-and-i-have-121539/.
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"Friends are very important to me, and I have always had many of them. There are probably many reasons why this is so, but two seem to me more valid than any of the others I am a naturally friendly person, and I hate to be alone." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friends-are-very-important-to-me-and-i-have-121539/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.







