"Friendship and money: oil and water"
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The subtext is about contamination. Friendship is supposed to be a space where motives can stay pleasantly blurry. Money is the opposite: it demands accounting, assigns value, keeps receipts. Put them in the same container and you don’t get a richer bond; you get suspicion. Who owes whom? Who’s using whom? Who’s “family” when the numbers turn ugly? Puzo’s genius is that he doesn’t moralize. He doesn’t say money corrupts because people are weak; he implies money reveals because people are complicated.
Context matters: Puzo built his reputation on The Godfather’s ecosystem, where “friendship” often means alliance and “favor” means debt. In that setting, intimacy is transactional even when it’s heartfelt, and the most dangerous moment is when someone pretends it isn’t. The metaphor’s simplicity is the trapdoor: you nod along, then realize it’s not only about mobsters. It’s about how quickly warmth curdles when price tags appear.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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"Friendship and money: oil and water." FixQuotes, 14 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-and-money-oil-and-water-137180/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.













