"Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things that give value to survival"
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Lewis pulls off a daring bait-and-switch: he calls friendship "unnecessary" precisely to rescue it from the grubby language of utility. In a culture that instinctively asks what things are for, he starts by granting the premise - survival is the baseline metric - and then punctures it. Friendship, like philosophy and art, won’t keep you fed, warm, or medically stable. That’s the point. If your highest goal is merely to persist, you’ve already accepted a thin picture of what a human life is.
The subtext is gently combative. Lewis is arguing against a modern habit of reducing meaning to function: relationships as networking, art as content, education as job training. By pairing friendship with philosophy and art, he smuggles it into a category of goods that can’t be justified by spreadsheets without being diminished. The ellipsis does quiet rhetorical work too: it invites you to fill in the rest of the utilitarian ledger before he flips it, suggesting that the reader is complicit in the very reduction he’s about to challenge.
Context matters: Lewis wrote as a Christian thinker formed by war, conversion, and a deep investment in older accounts of virtue and community. He’s not naive about survival; he’s suspicious of making it the only standard. The line ultimately reframes friendship as a kind of meaning-making technology: not an accessory to life, but the medium that makes life feel like more than endurance. Survival is biology. Friendship is what keeps biology from becoming the whole story.
The subtext is gently combative. Lewis is arguing against a modern habit of reducing meaning to function: relationships as networking, art as content, education as job training. By pairing friendship with philosophy and art, he smuggles it into a category of goods that can’t be justified by spreadsheets without being diminished. The ellipsis does quiet rhetorical work too: it invites you to fill in the rest of the utilitarian ledger before he flips it, suggesting that the reader is complicit in the very reduction he’s about to challenge.
Context matters: Lewis wrote as a Christian thinker formed by war, conversion, and a deep investment in older accounts of virtue and community. He’s not naive about survival; he’s suspicious of making it the only standard. The line ultimately reframes friendship as a kind of meaning-making technology: not an accessory to life, but the medium that makes life feel like more than endurance. Survival is biology. Friendship is what keeps biology from becoming the whole story.
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| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | C. S. Lewis, The Four Loves (1960), chapter "Friendship". |
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