"Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society"
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The triad that follows is almost engineering talk dressed in poetry: “Sweet’ner of life, and solder of society.” “Sweet’ner” suggests friendship as a corrective to bitterness, a daily additive that changes the taste of existence without changing its ingredients. Then “solder” abruptly shifts from kitchen to workshop: a practical, heat-forged connection that joins separate parts into a functioning whole. Blair’s subtext is quietly political. In early 18th-century Britain, “society” is expanding and fragmenting at once - commerce, clubs, coffeehouses, party rivalry, religious tension. Friendship becomes a stabilizer in a culture where traditional bonds (parish, kinship, unquestioned hierarchy) are under strain.
The religious poet’s intent peeks through the material metaphors: morality isn’t sustained by abstract doctrine alone, but by lived attachments that train sympathy, loyalty, restraint. Calling friendship “cement” and “solder” implies it can fail too: crack, corrode, come loose. That edge keeps the line from being sentimental. It’s a reminder that community is made, not given - and the most powerful forces holding it together are often the least legible.
Quote Details
| Topic | Friendship |
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| Source | 'The Grave' (poem), Robert Blair, 1743. |
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Blair, Robert. (2026, January 15). Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/
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Blair, Robert. "Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/.
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"Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.











