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Faith & Spirit Quote by Robert Blair

"Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society"

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“Friendship!” lands like a toast raised mid-sermon: devotional punctuation for something Blair treats as both intimate and infrastructural. The phrase “mysterious cement of the soul” is doing double work. Cement is unglamorous, invisible once set, and essential; “mysterious” nods to the era’s fascination with hidden forces (Providence, sentiment, moral instinct) that bind people beyond law or blood. Blair’s not romanticizing friendship as a mood. He’s pitching it as a binding agent - spiritual on the inside, social on the outside.

The triad that follows is almost engineering talk dressed in poetry: “Sweet’ner of life, and solder of society.” “Sweet’ner” suggests friendship as a corrective to bitterness, a daily additive that changes the taste of existence without changing its ingredients. Then “solder” abruptly shifts from kitchen to workshop: a practical, heat-forged connection that joins separate parts into a functioning whole. Blair’s subtext is quietly political. In early 18th-century Britain, “society” is expanding and fragmenting at once - commerce, clubs, coffeehouses, party rivalry, religious tension. Friendship becomes a stabilizer in a culture where traditional bonds (parish, kinship, unquestioned hierarchy) are under strain.

The religious poet’s intent peeks through the material metaphors: morality isn’t sustained by abstract doctrine alone, but by lived attachments that train sympathy, loyalty, restraint. Calling friendship “cement” and “solder” implies it can fail too: crack, corrode, come loose. That edge keeps the line from being sentimental. It’s a reminder that community is made, not given - and the most powerful forces holding it together are often the least legible.

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TopicFriendship
Source'The Grave' (poem), Robert Blair, 1743.
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Blair, Robert. (2026, January 15). Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/

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Blair, Robert. "Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/.

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"Friendship! Mysterious cement of the soul, Sweet'ner of life, and solder of society." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-mysterious-cement-of-the-soul-sweetner-163806/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Robert Blair (1699 AC - 1746 AC) was a Poet from Scotland.

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