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Daily Inspiration Quote by Dag Hammarskjold

"Friendship needs no words - it is solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness"

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Friendship, for Hammarskjold, isn’t chatter or chemistry; it’s relief. The line turns a common social ideal on its head by stripping friendship of performance. “Needs no words” rejects the public-facing version of closeness - the witty banter, the constant checking in, the proof-of-care. What remains is something quieter and more demanding: the ability to sit inside your own mind without feeling abandoned.

The subtext is almost monastic. Hammarskjold lived at the intersection of authority and isolation, a UN Secretary-General expected to project calm while absorbing geopolitical dread. Diplomacy is built from words, yet he’s pointing to what words can’t fix: the private ache that comes from being surrounded by people and still feeling existentially unaccompanied. In that light, “solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness” becomes a psychological distinction with moral weight. Solitude is chosen; loneliness is imposed. Friendship, at its best, doesn’t erase your aloneness - it converts it from punishment into space.

The phrasing “delivered” carries a faintly religious charge, like salvation without theology. It also hints at his profession’s darker irony: statesmen trade in language to prevent catastrophe, but the most human form of security arrives wordlessly, person to person, no treaties required. The intent isn’t sentimental; it’s practical. He’s defining friendship as a kind of shelter that lets you remain yourself, unperformed, unedited, and therefore unafraid.

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Hammarskjold, Dag. (2026, January 17). Friendship needs no words - it is solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-needs-no-words-it-is-solitude-30667/

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Hammarskjold, Dag. "Friendship needs no words - it is solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-needs-no-words-it-is-solitude-30667/.

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"Friendship needs no words - it is solitude delivered from the anguish of loneliness." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/friendship-needs-no-words-it-is-solitude-30667/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Dag Hammarskjold

Dag Hammarskjold (July 29, 1905 - September 18, 1961) was a Diplomat from Sweden.

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