"From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate"
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The subtext is psychological before it’s moral. Deep desire tends to carry entitlement: I have imagined a life, a lover, a status, a certainty. If reality contradicts that fantasy, the gap feels like an insult. Hate becomes a defense mechanism that protects the ego from admitting it was wrong, or needy, or vulnerable. It’s easier to demonize the obstacle - the rival, the ex, the political out-group, the heretic - than to interrogate the craving itself. In that sense, hate is desire with its mask ripped off.
Read in a Socratic context, it also points to the civic danger of private appetites. Athens knew how quickly eros for honor or power can dress itself up as principle. Socrates spent his life needling that kind of self-deception: asking people to define justice, virtue, courage, then showing how their desires had been doing the thinking. The remark works because it’s not comforting. It doesn’t flatter our politics or our romances. It warns that the most violent emotions often start as something we insist is pure: longing, loyalty, love.
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