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"Genteel women suppose that those things do not really exist about which it is impossible to talk in polite company"

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Nietzsche lands the blow with a sneer disguised as etiquette. “Genteel women” aren’t really his subject; “suppose” is. He’s skewering a cultivated form of denial: the belief that reality shrinks to the size of what a drawing room can name without blushing. Polite company becomes a censorship machine that doesn’t merely silence certain topics (sex, violence, bodily functions, money, power) but quietly edits the world until the unsayable feels unreal.

The line works because it exposes how social grace can masquerade as moral truth. If you can’t mention it, you don’t have to confront it; if you don’t confront it, you can preserve the fantasy that your virtue is natural rather than maintained. Nietzsche’s jab at “genteel women” is also strategic: in his era, bourgeois respectability was heavily gendered, and women were cast as guardians of propriety. He’s not offering a sociological profile so much as using a recognizable figure to indict an entire culture of refinement-as-evasion.

Context matters: Nietzsche spent his career attacking the moralized habits of European Christianity and bourgeois life, arguing that “good taste” often functions as resentment in perfume. This quip is a micro-version of his larger project: unmask the comfortable fictions that let people avoid the ugly engines underneath civilization. The subtext is ruthless: you’re not pure because you don’t speak of certain things; you’re protected. And your protection depends on everyone agreeing to the same silence.

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"Genteel women suppose that those things do not really exist about which it is impossible to talk in polite company." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/genteel-women-suppose-that-those-things-do-not-247/. Accessed 11 Feb. 2026.

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Friedrich Nietzsche (October 15, 1844 - August 25, 1900) was a Philosopher from Germany.

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