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"Gentlemen don't read each other's mail"

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A whole espionage ethic smuggled into eight words, delivered with the kind of patrician certainty that makes a policy sound like a posture. When Henry L. Stimson reportedly defended shutting down U.S. codebreaking in 1929 with "Gentlemen don't read each other's mail", he wasn’t just making a moral point. He was performing a worldview: international politics as a club of respectable men, governed by honor, reciprocity, and restraint rather than paranoia and power.

The line works because it weaponizes civility. "Gentlemen" is doing most of the labor here, turning surveillance into a breach of etiquette, not strategy. It reframes intelligence gathering as something faintly vulgar, like eavesdropping at a dinner party. "Each other's" implies symmetry and mutual decency, a fantasy of equal actors behaving well. "Mail" domesticates the act: not state secrets, not military plans, just private correspondence. The subtext is that some kinds of knowledge are illegitimate to possess, even if they might prevent catastrophe.

Context makes the irony bite. The interwar period was awash in idealism about arms control and diplomatic transparency, yet it was also a time when coded communications and emerging signals intelligence were becoming central to statecraft. Stimson’s formulation reflects an old-guard faith in formal diplomacy right as the world was moving toward total war and bureaucratized secrecy. The quote endures because it captures a recurring American temptation: to treat power politics as a character test. It’s a handsome sentiment, and a dangerously comforting one.

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Unverified source: On Active Service in Peace and War (Henry L. Stimson, 1948)
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Stimson, as Secretary of State, was dealing as a gentleman with the gentlemen sent as ambassadors and ministers from friendly nations, and he is reputed to have said, "Gentlemen do not read each other's mail." (Page 188 (Chapter 7)). Earliest primary-source appearance I could verify is in Stimson...
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Henry L. Stimson (September 21, 1867 - October 20, 1950) was a Statesman from USA.

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