"Gertrude Stein really thought of Hemingway as frail. He almost married Stein"
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A good critic’s joke doesn’t just land; it detonates a whole intellectual scene in a single misdirection. Leslie Fiedler’s line flips Hemingway’s most famous brand asset - muscular stoicism - into something almost laughably delicate. The first sentence is the setup: Gertrude Stein, the Paris salon impresario who helped midwife modernism, “really thought” Hemingway was frail. That “really” matters. It implies the insult isn’t a casual jab but a sincere diagnosis, an authority figure’s private verdict on the boy genius she once patronized.
Then Fiedler twists the knife with the second sentence: “He almost married Stein.” It’s a scandalous non sequitur that works precisely because it’s not meant to be factual. Stein was openly partnered with Alice B. Toklas; Hemingway was married to women; the “almost” is comic fantasy. The point is symbolic: Hemingway’s relationship to Stein was intimate, dependent, and formative enough to resemble a courtship in the old, unequal sense - apprenticeship as seduction, mentorship as possession. Fiedler reduces literary lineage to bedroom farce, exposing how power in avant-garde circles often ran on charisma, gatekeeping, and emotional leverage.
The subtext is also anti-Hemingway. “Frail” punctures the macho myth, suggesting the hypermasculinity was overcompensation, a costume stitched in reaction to being seen as soft by a woman who could out-stare him. Fiedler’s intent is classic critic-as-satirist: make the canon wobble by reminding you that reputations are socially engineered, and that modernism’s great men were, in real time, painfully manageable.
Then Fiedler twists the knife with the second sentence: “He almost married Stein.” It’s a scandalous non sequitur that works precisely because it’s not meant to be factual. Stein was openly partnered with Alice B. Toklas; Hemingway was married to women; the “almost” is comic fantasy. The point is symbolic: Hemingway’s relationship to Stein was intimate, dependent, and formative enough to resemble a courtship in the old, unequal sense - apprenticeship as seduction, mentorship as possession. Fiedler reduces literary lineage to bedroom farce, exposing how power in avant-garde circles often ran on charisma, gatekeeping, and emotional leverage.
The subtext is also anti-Hemingway. “Frail” punctures the macho myth, suggesting the hypermasculinity was overcompensation, a costume stitched in reaction to being seen as soft by a woman who could out-stare him. Fiedler’s intent is classic critic-as-satirist: make the canon wobble by reminding you that reputations are socially engineered, and that modernism’s great men were, in real time, painfully manageable.
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