"Gertrude Stein really thought of Hemingway as frail. He almost married Stein"
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Then Fiedler twists the knife with the second sentence: “He almost married Stein.” It’s a scandalous non sequitur that works precisely because it’s not meant to be factual. Stein was openly partnered with Alice B. Toklas; Hemingway was married to women; the “almost” is comic fantasy. The point is symbolic: Hemingway’s relationship to Stein was intimate, dependent, and formative enough to resemble a courtship in the old, unequal sense - apprenticeship as seduction, mentorship as possession. Fiedler reduces literary lineage to bedroom farce, exposing how power in avant-garde circles often ran on charisma, gatekeeping, and emotional leverage.
The subtext is also anti-Hemingway. “Frail” punctures the macho myth, suggesting the hypermasculinity was overcompensation, a costume stitched in reaction to being seen as soft by a woman who could out-stare him. Fiedler’s intent is classic critic-as-satirist: make the canon wobble by reminding you that reputations are socially engineered, and that modernism’s great men were, in real time, painfully manageable.
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Fiedler, Leslie. (2026, January 16). Gertrude Stein really thought of Hemingway as frail. He almost married Stein. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gertrude-stein-really-thought-of-hemingway-as-87594/
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Fiedler, Leslie. "Gertrude Stein really thought of Hemingway as frail. He almost married Stein." FixQuotes. January 16, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gertrude-stein-really-thought-of-hemingway-as-87594/.
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"Gertrude Stein really thought of Hemingway as frail. He almost married Stein." FixQuotes, 16 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/gertrude-stein-really-thought-of-hemingway-as-87594/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.




