"Get this in mind early: We never grow up"
About this Quote
The specific intent isn't to excuse childishness. It's to liberate the reader from the shame of still feeling unfinished. Bach, writing in a late-20th-century American culture obsessed with self-actualization and personal reinvention, offers an antidote to the myth of arrival. The subtext: if you keep waiting to become the version of yourself who is fearless, healed, sorted, you'll delay the only real work, which is living while still confused, still curious, still prone to reverting.
The line also smuggles in a democratic, slightly mischievous cynicism. If no one truly grows up, then the authority adults project is partly performance. That can be unsettling - it means your bosses, leaders, even parents are improvising - but it's also empowering. It invites a different kind of maturity: not the death of play or wonder, but the ability to hold them alongside bills, grief, and consequence.
Bach's minimalist phrasing does the heavy lifting. No metaphors, no hedges. It's a mantra you can carry, and a warning against taking anyone's adulthood too seriously, including your own.
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| Topic | Youth |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Bach, Richard. (2026, January 18). Get this in mind early: We never grow up. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/get-this-in-mind-early-we-never-grow-up-1345/
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Bach, Richard. "Get this in mind early: We never grow up." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/get-this-in-mind-early-we-never-grow-up-1345/.
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"Get this in mind early: We never grow up." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/get-this-in-mind-early-we-never-grow-up-1345/. Accessed 16 Feb. 2026.






