"Getting angry doesn't solve anything"
About this Quote
The intent is deceptively practical: anger feels like action, but it can be a dead-end emotion, burning energy without changing the outcome. Kelly’s phrasing is tidy and absolute, which is the point. No loopholes, no romanticizing righteous fury. It performs the very restraint it recommends, packaging self-control as clarity.
The subtext, though, cuts two ways. On one hand, it’s an argument for agency: don’t hand your steering wheel to a rush of adrenaline. On the other, it reflects a mid-century expectation placed heavily on women in public life: be pleasant, be serene, keep the temperature low. In that world, anger doesn’t just “not solve” things; it gets you punished, dismissed, or reduced to a headline.
Context matters because Kelly lived at the intersection of glamour and obligation. Her persona suggested that grace is not innate, it’s maintained. The quote works because it’s both comforting and coercive: a calming mantra that also hints at what’s required to remain untouchable. It’s less a denial of anger than a reminder that, in certain rooms, anger is costly - and composure is power.
Quote Details
| Topic | Anger |
|---|---|
| Source | Help us find the source |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Kelly, Grace. (2026, January 15). Getting angry doesn't solve anything. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/getting-angry-doesnt-solve-anything-167528/
Chicago Style
Kelly, Grace. "Getting angry doesn't solve anything." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/getting-angry-doesnt-solve-anything-167528/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Getting angry doesn't solve anything." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/getting-angry-doesnt-solve-anything-167528/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











