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Wit & Attitude Quote by Mae West

"Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you"

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Mae West compresses an entire power theory into a sly one-liner: freedom granted without boundaries doesn’t stay innocent for long. “Free hand” sounds neighborly, even generous, but she flips it into something tactile and predatory. The joke lands because “run it all over you” carries a double charge: it’s a warning about being exploited and a West-style wink about sex, touch, and consent. That friction between the punchline’s sauciness and its practical menace is the point. She’s telling you to laugh, then notice you’re laughing at a real social pattern.

The intent isn’t anti-men so much as anti-naivete. West made a career playing women who understood how quickly “niceness” becomes a lever used against you. In her world, permissions are read as invitations; ambiguity is treated as access. The subtext is transactional: if you don’t define the terms, someone else will, and they’ll define them in their favor.

Context matters. West built her persona in early-to-mid 20th-century entertainment, when women were expected to be agreeable, deferential, “good sports” about male attention, and grateful for any latitude. She weaponized that expectation by speaking plainly inside a joke, smuggling critique through charisma. The line works because it turns flirtation into a boundary-setting lesson, delivered with enough sparkle that it passes as comedy while refusing to be merely cute.

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APA Style (7th ed.)
West, Mae. (2026, January 17). Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-a-man-a-free-hand-and-hell-run-it-all-over-26251/

Chicago Style
West, Mae. "Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-a-man-a-free-hand-and-hell-run-it-all-over-26251/.

MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Give a man a free hand and he'll run it all over you." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-a-man-a-free-hand-and-hell-run-it-all-over-26251/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.

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Mae West

Mae West (August 17, 1893 - November 22, 1980) was a Actress from USA.

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