"Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice"
About this Quote
The intent is practical: move through society with maximum information and minimum exposure. "Give" makes the ear sound generous, almost democratic, while "few" snaps shut like a gate. That imbalance is the subtext. Listening is framed as harmless - even flattering - because it costs you nothing visible. Speaking, by contrast, is treated as self-incrimination. In Elsinore, every opinion is a potential allegiance, every candid remark a quote waiting to be weaponized. Polonius, the play's bureaucratic busybody, knows this world intimately; his advice reads like a survival guide written by a man who has spent years translating human messiness into reportable facts.
Shakespeare also plants a quiet irony. Polonius preaches restraint, yet he is famously incapable of it: he meddles, spies, and talks himself into a fatal position behind the arras. The line works because it exposes a core social truth - that attention can be offered without commitment - while letting the character undermine it. It's not just about discretion; it's about power. The person who listens collects leverage. The person who speaks supplies it.
Quote Details
| Topic | Wisdom |
|---|---|
| Source | Hamlet — William Shakespeare, Act 1, Scene 3 (Polonius). Contains the line "Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice." |
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"Give every man thy ear, but few thy voice." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-every-man-thy-ear-but-few-thy-voice-42180/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.











