"Give me life, give me pain, give me myself again"
About this Quote
The most revealing phrase is “give me myself again.” That “again” implies theft or erosion: a self lost to trauma, desire, depression, industry pressure, or the ordinary slow violence of growing up as a woman in public. Amos’s work has long treated the body and psyche as contested territory, where religion, sex, memory, and power all leave fingerprints. In that light, pain becomes less a punishment than a waypoint on the route back to ownership.
The syntax does the heavy lifting. The repeated “give me” is insistence, almost transactional: if the world is going to take, it can also return. It’s also a subtle rejection of passivity. She doesn’t say “I want” or “I hope”; she issues an imperative, as if reclaiming the right to narrate her own experience. The line lands because it admits an uncomfortable truth modern self-care culture often dodges: you don’t always find yourself by escaping pain. Sometimes you find yourself by surviving it without outsourcing your story.
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| Topic | Reinvention |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Amos, Tori. (2026, January 15). Give me life, give me pain, give me myself again. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-me-life-give-me-pain-give-me-myself-again-160090/
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Amos, Tori. "Give me life, give me pain, give me myself again." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-me-life-give-me-pain-give-me-myself-again-160090/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Give me life, give me pain, give me myself again." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/give-me-life-give-me-pain-give-me-myself-again-160090/. Accessed 24 Feb. 2026.









