"Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head"
About this Quote
The intent is to puncture the sanitized, Hallmark version of motherhood. Burnett doesn’t romanticize; she escalates. By making the metaphor impossible, she signals that language itself fails at describing labor, so comedy has to cheat: exaggeration as truth-telling. The subtext is also about permission. When a beloved comic says the quiet part out loud, she gives other women cover to admit fear, resentment, disbelief, even revulsion - emotions that get policed the moment pregnancy turns public.
Context matters: Burnett came up in a mid-century entertainment world where women were supposed to be charming, not visceral. She built a career on being both. This line carries the legacy of variety-show candor and stand-up’s confessional edge, delivered with an actress’s timing: one absurd picture, no sentimental payoff. It’s a cultural release valve, but it’s also a small protest against the expectation that pain should be framed as “beautiful.” Burnett makes it bodily, ridiculous, and therefore speakable.
Quote Details
| Topic | New Mom |
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| Source | Later attribution: Your Emotional Boat (Linda Branham M.Ed., 2008) modern compilationISBN: 9781467827478 · ID: wO8goN0op2IC
Evidence:
... Carol Burnett Quotes : " Celebrity was a long time in coming ; it will go away . Everything goes away . " " Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head . " " I don't have false teeth . Do you think I'd buy ... |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Burnett, Carol. (2026, February 9). Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/giving-birth-is-like-taking-your-lower-lip-and-101536/
Chicago Style
Burnett, Carol. "Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head." FixQuotes. February 9, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/giving-birth-is-like-taking-your-lower-lip-and-101536/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Giving birth is like taking your lower lip and forcing it over your head." FixQuotes, 9 Feb. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/giving-birth-is-like-taking-your-lower-lip-and-101536/. Accessed 9 Feb. 2026.









