"Glamour is something you can't bear to be without once you're used to it"
About this Quote
Young came up in the studio era, when glamour was an industrial product as much as an aesthetic: carefully controlled images, carefully controlled access, carefully controlled narratives. Her intent reads as both confession and warning from someone who knew how the machine worked. The subtext is that glamour isn't owned by the star; it's rented to her by the system, and the rent is paid in compliance, performance, and the constant maintenance of an illusion. If you "can't bear" being without it, you're vulnerable to anyone who can withhold it.
There's also a quiet gendered bite. For actresses, glamour functioned as currency and cage at once: it opened doors, then demanded you never be seen without its armor. Young is acknowledging the psychological cost of being aesthetically policed for a living - how quickly validation becomes baseline, and baseline becomes nonnegotiable. The brilliance is its plainspoken honesty: glamour sounds airy, but she describes it as gravity.
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| Topic | Aesthetic |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Young, Loretta. (2026, January 15). Glamour is something you can't bear to be without once you're used to it. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glamour-is-something-you-cant-bear-to-be-without-150753/
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Young, Loretta. "Glamour is something you can't bear to be without once you're used to it." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glamour-is-something-you-cant-bear-to-be-without-150753/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Glamour is something you can't bear to be without once you're used to it." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glamour-is-something-you-cant-bear-to-be-without-150753/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.





