"Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really"
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Then she pivots to sex, and the provocation is in the deflation: “Simulating sex is nothing.” Not nothing as in meaningless for performers or audiences, but nothing compared to the cultural damage she implies violence can do when it’s celebrated. Calling it “impersonal” is the key subtext. Derek is puncturing the public’s assumption that filmed intimacy is inherently private, inherently “real,” inherently corrupting. On a set, simulated sex is choreography, marks, lighting, modesty garments, a roomful of crew. The act may look intimate; the labor often isn’t.
Context matters here: Derek emerged as a highly sexualized star, a symbol people projected fantasies onto, then judged for the same image they consumed. Her remark reads like a veteran’s rebuttal to moral panic: the industry that frets over bodies and orgasms has fewer qualms about bullets and bruises, especially when violence props up masculinity, patriotism, or plot momentum. It’s a cultural audit disguised as a casual aside: why do we police sex as personal sin while laundering violence as public virtue?
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Derek, Bo. (2026, January 17). Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/
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Derek, Bo. "Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.








