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Love & Passion Quote by Bo Derek

"Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really"

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Bo Derek is drawing a bright, almost blunt line between what Hollywood treats as scandalous and what it routinely packages as entertainment. Her phrasing is telling: “Glorifying violence” isn’t just showing violence, it’s making it aspirational, heroic, cool. That’s the charge. It’s not about a squeamish reaction to blood onscreen; it’s about the moral framing that lets audiences cheer harm when the camera and script sanctify it.

Then she pivots to sex, and the provocation is in the deflation: “Simulating sex is nothing.” Not nothing as in meaningless for performers or audiences, but nothing compared to the cultural damage she implies violence can do when it’s celebrated. Calling it “impersonal” is the key subtext. Derek is puncturing the public’s assumption that filmed intimacy is inherently private, inherently “real,” inherently corrupting. On a set, simulated sex is choreography, marks, lighting, modesty garments, a roomful of crew. The act may look intimate; the labor often isn’t.

Context matters here: Derek emerged as a highly sexualized star, a symbol people projected fantasies onto, then judged for the same image they consumed. Her remark reads like a veteran’s rebuttal to moral panic: the industry that frets over bodies and orgasms has fewer qualms about bullets and bruises, especially when violence props up masculinity, patriotism, or plot momentum. It’s a cultural audit disguised as a casual aside: why do we police sex as personal sin while laundering violence as public virtue?

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APA Style (7th ed.)
Derek, Bo. (2026, January 17). Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/

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Derek, Bo. "Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/.

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"Glorifying violence is terrible. Simulating sex is nothing - it's something so impersonal really." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/glorifying-violence-is-terrible-simulating-sex-is-39659/. Accessed 13 Feb. 2026.

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Bo Derek (born November 20, 1955) is a Actress from USA.

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