"God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not the choice. You must take it. The only choice is how"
About this Quote
The intent is pastoral, but not soft. Beecher was a 19th-century American Protestant celebrity with a reformer's confidence and a preacher's instinct for moral triage. In an era of revivalism, industrial churn, and Civil War trauma, he offers a doctrine that can survive disappointment: your circumstances may arrive unannounced, but your posture toward them is still yours to shape. It's a rebuke to both despair and entitlement. Complaining that you didn't "choose" your burdens becomes, in Beecher's frame, a category error.
The subtext is also quietly democratic and masculine in its address ("no man"), aimed at a public trained to equate freedom with limitless choice. Beecher redefines freedom as response, not control: dignity isn't found in selecting your fate, but in meeting it with a chosen manner - courage, faith, service, or grit. The unfinished "how" is the hook; it forces the listener to supply the ending with a life.
Quote Details
| Topic | Free Will & Fate |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Beecher, Henry Ward. (2026, January 17). God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not the choice. You must take it. The only choice is how. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-asks-no-man-whether-he-will-accept-life-that-38061/
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Beecher, Henry Ward. "God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not the choice. You must take it. The only choice is how." FixQuotes. January 17, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-asks-no-man-whether-he-will-accept-life-that-38061/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"God asks no man whether he will accept life. That is not the choice. You must take it. The only choice is how." FixQuotes, 17 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-asks-no-man-whether-he-will-accept-life-that-38061/. Accessed 18 Feb. 2026.









