"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference"
About this Quote
The subtext is an argument with modern anxiety before we had the vocabulary for it. The prayer recognizes how moral life gets distorted by two equal and opposite temptations: the manic urge to fix everything (which becomes tyranny or burnout) and the fatalistic shrug that calls itself realism (which becomes complicity). By placing “accept” before “change,” Niebuhr also undercuts a certain heroic self-image; you don’t earn courage until you’ve admitted limits.
Context matters. Niebuhr was writing as a Christian realist shaped by war, economic upheaval, and the hard lessons of political power. He distrusted sentimental progress narratives and also rejected cynicism. That tension is why the line traveled so well into Alcoholics Anonymous and beyond: it’s portable theology, stripped to a usable ethic. Not optimism, not resignation, but a moral compass calibrated to constraint.
Quote Details
| Topic | Prayer |
|---|---|
| Source | "Serenity Prayer" (short form), attributed to Reinhold Niebuhr, c. 1934 — common wording: "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Niebuhr, Reinhold. (2026, January 18). God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-grant-me-the-serenity-to-accept-the-things-i-14934/
Chicago Style
Niebuhr, Reinhold. "God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." FixQuotes. January 18, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-grant-me-the-serenity-to-accept-the-things-i-14934/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference." FixQuotes, 18 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-grant-me-the-serenity-to-accept-the-things-i-14934/. Accessed 12 Feb. 2026.



