"God has been very good to me, for I never dwell upon anything wrong which a person has done, so as to remember it afterwards. If I do remember it, I always see some other virtue in that person"
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The second sentence sharpens the subtext: if the offense returns anyway, she doesn’t negotiate with it on its own terms. She counter-programs the mind by deliberately “see[ing] some other virtue.” That’s not sentimental whitewashing; it’s a strategy for preserving relationships, community, and her own interior freedom. In a convent world dense with hierarchy, gossip, and interpersonal friction, dwelling on injuries could metastasize into factionalism. For a reformer who needed allies and stamina, resentment was not merely a vice; it was logistical sabotage.
There’s also a quietly audacious claim about power. Teresa implies the offender doesn’t get to author your inner life. By refusing to rehearse the wrong, she relocates control from the provocateur to the self, from the social drama to the spiritual project. The line between grace and technique blurs: God is “very good” to her, yet her goodness is executed through a repeatable habit. She’s offering a blueprint disguised as gratitude, making mercy sound less like an ideal and more like a workable practice.
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| Topic | Forgiveness |
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APA Style (7th ed.)
Avila, Saint Teresa of. (2026, January 15). God has been very good to me, for I never dwell upon anything wrong which a person has done, so as to remember it afterwards. If I do remember it, I always see some other virtue in that person. FixQuotes. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-has-been-very-good-to-me-for-i-never-dwell-1650/
Chicago Style
Avila, Saint Teresa of. "God has been very good to me, for I never dwell upon anything wrong which a person has done, so as to remember it afterwards. If I do remember it, I always see some other virtue in that person." FixQuotes. January 15, 2026. https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-has-been-very-good-to-me-for-i-never-dwell-1650/.
MLA Style (9th ed.)
"God has been very good to me, for I never dwell upon anything wrong which a person has done, so as to remember it afterwards. If I do remember it, I always see some other virtue in that person." FixQuotes, 15 Jan. 2026, https://fixquotes.com/quotes/god-has-been-very-good-to-me-for-i-never-dwell-1650/. Accessed 21 Feb. 2026.







